Article by Jerry Standefer
The first thing you need to understand in reference to abusive teenagers is that no parent should endure abusive behavior from their teenage children. In addition it should be understood that abuse is a two way street that unfortunately is well traveled around the world. Today however, we will focus on the subject of abusive teenagers. When you think of abuse or abusive teenagers the first image that springs to mind is a physical abuse situation. Someone is physically attacking someone else. This does happen but there are many different types of abuse. This abuse can be directed towards family members by abusive teenagers or very often right at his or her self.
When you talk about abusive teenagers you are not discussing a monster but rather a young human being who is experiencing problems that are making it difficult to function properly in their daily lives. These problems can stem from many aspects of their existence. The reason we mentioned abuse being a two way street is because often children who are abused tend to lean towards returning the favor later in life. A stable family situation must begin with the parents. Unfortunately in today’s world there are too many single parent households or homes where both parents have too work full time to maintain a successful financial status.
Abusive teenagers are not born this way or are they typically molded this way by their parents. It is not a situation in life that anyone wants to be in. The teenage years are full of pressures that find young adults find hard to handle as they make that transformation into social independence. They become involved in relationships outside the home with girl or boyfriends and become part of particular groups. Sometimes they fit in right away and sometimes they don’t. Fitting in is very important to teenagers. When things don’t go right depression can set in and with it possible abusive tendencies may arise. Some teenagers tend to keep a lot of hostility locked inside and until they explode on those that they love. So how do you deal with the abusive teenager?
Dealing with abusive teenagers must be handled with care. When a teenager reaches the point that they are abusing others physically, verbally or abusing themselves by either taking drugs or inflicting self pain then it is time to seek professional help. As hard as it is too face there are simply some problems that exist in the minds of teenagers that parents cannot always solve with a glass of milk and cookies. What parents can do is keep the lines of communication open with their teenagers. Teenagers will never let you into their lives completely but at least you can keep a foot in the door. They need love and tenderness as much in their teens as they did when they were toddlers; they just need it in a different way with a different approach. Build a bond forged on trust. Try to be there for them in their time of need but when the abuse takes a wrong turn; turn to the professionals for assistance.
About the Author
Jerry Standefer is CEO of JBSNET Marketing. If you need more help parenting your teenager, you can visit our blog Parenting Todays Teenager. A free gift just for reading my article. Visit our parenting website entitled Parenting Todays Teenager at http://parenting-todays-teenager.com/ and sign up for our free reports.
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